Non-Christians have a different perspective on dating.
Before a girl even says yes to a date, she must know that she is a beautiful, perfect creation of God.
Girls began consistently paying attention to me in my mid-20s, when I started coming into my own as a writer. This isn’t to say it’s not a huge and important part of life.
I noticed a trend: a girl would find me mildly amusing, then would read my blogs or articles, and then would suddenly be I, like virtually everyone, had one girl who I really, really liked, and who liked to be around me, but who wasn’t particularly attracted to me. But it’s certainly not the end goal of a relationship.
There are all kinds of advice out there about dating today, but a lot of it is about dating in the world rather than Christian dating.
Christians need to have a different attitude toward dating.